Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Sure, everyone's heard the saying, "Actions speak louder than words" and most of us would agree. Ok, whoop de doo...what about it?

Think about it. Your friend tells you she has a soccer game Thursday night. She's really pumped up for it, it's against a tough team but she thinks they'll pull off a win. You put on a big smile and wish her the best of luck. "Knock 'em dead, girl!" But think of how much better your bud would feel if YOU showed up at that game and cheered her on from the stands.

Picture this. A girl on your debate team is looking a little down one day. You go up to her and ask her what's wrong. "Oh, well, my grandpa just passed away and we were really close...." she sniffles. You either: A. pat her on the back and say, "Oh man, I'm really sorry. That must be so tough." or B. Give her a big hug and offer to be there to talk if she wants to. And maybe even make her a sympathy card. Which option do you think would make her feel better?

Sometimes you have to slow down and take a breath. Consider what's more important, that new episode of Lost or helping Grandma with her groceries. You can say the sweetest words on earth, but that's all they'll ever be--words. It may be harder taking that extra step, but it's a step....not a mile.